Skip to main content

An Apology

Having grown up as the fat kid from "the other side of the tracks" with the younger brother who was a slow learner, I had to take a lot of bullying. I hated it and my father never let me defend myself. It gave me character- whatever the heck that means. It should have also taught me to consider other peoples feelings.

I have failed somewhat in the past week or so. You might ask how and I will tell you that I have used this blog and one of the forums I post on to lead(what I now believe) an unfair attack on the forum poster known as "JimOhio".

Jim has a thriving CPA business in Medina, and especially this time of year uses the forums to blow off steam, and created a persona based on his love of talk radio. He's also like most of the baby boomers who post on the television board and does lots of reliving of the seventies. as I have said before he personifies the saying that the word fan is short for fanatic.

Anyway my part in the attack was very unfair and I want to use my blog for the right thing and apologize.

Comments

Gohmann said…
I agree whole heartedly WIXY.

The beauty of Jim is that he is so abrasive. All he really has become is a normal radio listener who is just a little bit more passionate than most.

I hope he makes a return to the forums soon.

Gohmann
April 09, 2007 9:18 AM
Anonymous said…
Well you must have more information
than I have because I say Baloney!
He got what he deserved as far as
I'm concerned..

Mike Dane
April 09, 2007 1:17 PM
Cliff said…
Mike,

Perhaps, in alot of folks minds, Jim did get what he deserved, and in his e-mails to me he enjoyed some of the barbs he got from others, but the fact that I stepped out of character to launch an assult on him and got my forum name revoked is one thing I regret. Using the forums to give out clues of personal information is also something I should have never done. I freely give out my own personal info, but that also serves as a checks and balance system to assure I behave myself when I post my thoughts, but I shouldn't run the possibility of endangering others just because I don't like the way they express themselves. I also don't want others who have trusted me with some personal information to have any reason to regret that trust.
April 09, 2007 1:35 PM
Tim Lones said…
WIXY:
While I, for the most part believe Jum got what he desrved, I completely respect and understand your stand now. My thought:IF they let Jim back, he needs to tone down some of the rhetoric..Even if it is "an act"..I just think Jim went way too far in some of his postings..

Tim
April 09, 2007 2:54 PM
Anonymous said…
I think Jim could start out making amends by apologizing to OMW. This would be a great gesture on his behalf.
April 09, 2007 5:27 PM
Anonymous said…
I think that would be a good
start. And he could apologize to
everyone on the forum as well.
I think that much is owed.

Mike Dane
April 10, 2007 10:58 AM
Post a Comment

Popular posts from this blog

Post 800: Time to chat

Hi Guys, It's hard to believe that this is post number 800 for this blog. I started this blog out of my desire to communicate. Since radio and television is becoming more and more automated and less and less personal, I'm glad I made the decision to go in this direction as it has given me many blessings. When I first decided to write my musings, a friend from the radio and television boards who goes by the name of newsnomore, told me not to be discouraged if I didn't get any readers. The fact that I did in the early going made me surprised and grateful that anyone was enjoying what I wrote. I've had people tell me that maybe it wasn't meant for me to ever be in radio, that maybe my calling was blogging. Nowadays I think blogging makes for better two way conversation than terrestrial radio, especially the way I do it, non confrontational. The closest I come from any confrontation is the innocent digs that Pat and I shoot at each other. On an average day I get betwee...
12 comments
Read more

From a "Battleground State"

I am going to make this one short and sweet. I live in Ohio, in this election season, one of the so called "Battleground states," a state crucial for any candidate presidential hopes. Of course we have had many visits from presidential and vice presidential candidates. Other blogs have dissected both campaigns so I will not. The only questions I have is will the promises made by either of these candidates exclusive to these states be fulfilled, or will they prove only to be hot air?
19 comments
Read more

Why?

What I'm posting now is with the blessing of Chelle. Chelle is the cousin of Suzanne's husband, Richard. I had gotten the impression from both of them that they were about as close as sisters. Suzanne had been a friend of mine since I had discovered one of her blogs in July, 2006. We would make reference to each other on our blogs and would have dialogue via email quite a bit. It was no surprise to me that she was friends to many other bloggers as well. I felt it was quite an honor to be held in as high esteem as I was. We even talked to each other on the phone on occasion. I felt as we had known each other for a long time. I also knew that Suzanne was having some personal problems, much of which had to do with a very troubled marriage. I would let her bounce things off me, and I would send her some encouragement. While she was going through some of her marital problems, she made herself available to give me a lift when I needed it. My son was having some problems of his own a...
17 comments
Read more